Hypocrite through Personality

So one of the things that I've become associated with over the years is this crazy outgoing personality of mine. People assume that because I'm comfortable talking to someone I've never met I enjoy it. I'm not sure, if enjoy is the right word, but the point is my comfort level talking to new people is not the same as people think it is. Perhaps it's simply the fact that when I talk to someone somewhere I have an objective. Like I'm fine giving directions, or asking for that matter. I'm perfectly content with teaching a class, but as soon as I'm no longer above or below a position of power I can't talk to people. Maybe I have an ego complex? Like more than the usuall "I think I'm awesome" bullshit I usually pull. But for some reason I hate making new friends. I can't stand it, in fact I despise it! But it's something I have to do, and I'm not looking forward to it at all.